The death of a long-term spouse or partner presents significant challenges, often leaving individuals feeling disoriented and lost. Steve Wonsiewski, RN., Director of Psychiatric Services-Senior Behavioral Health at Roxborough Memorial Hospital and Suburban Behavioral Health Campus, discusses the importance of reinvention in overcoming such loss.
Wonsiewski explains that while cherishing memories is crucial, reaching a point where sharing stories feels natural takes time. He offers practical strategies to aid in this journey: engaging in new hobbies or interests, volunteering for causes, and journaling. These activities can help individuals reclaim their identity and foster personal growth.
He also emphasizes the importance of seeking support from friends, family, spiritual leaders, and community resources during this challenging time. Understanding that grief is a natural part of loss is vital; however, if it interferes with daily functioning or leads to thoughts of self-harm, professional help should be sought immediately.
Maintaining physical health through proper diet, regular exercise, and health check-ups is equally important. These practices support emotional well-being and resilience in facing the challenges of loss.
In conclusion, while losing a long-term partner can feel insurmountable, it is an opportunity for growth and reinvention. By embracing new experiences and prioritizing self-care, individuals can navigate toward healing and rediscovering their identity after loss.
For those experiencing mental health or substance abuse issues, the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline provides 24/7 support. Roxborough Memorial Hospital offers services for seniors with conditions like depression and anxiety. For more information on their services or to seek assistance, call 215-509-6800.
Steve Wonsiewski has extensive experience in psychiatric services and behavioral health management. He holds leadership roles at Prime Healthcare-Roxborough Memorial Hospital and its Suburban Behavioral Health Campus. His career began as a Registered Nurse specializing in geriatric behavioral health at Prime Healthcare-Roxborough Memorial Hospital.
For further details about Roxborough Memorial Hospital’s services or to connect on social media platforms like LinkedIn or Facebook, visit roxboroughmemorial.com.
Michelle Aliprantis serves as the Regional Director of Marketing and Communications at Prime Healthcare. She can be contacted via office phone at 215-785-9817 or email at MAliprantis@primehealthcare.com.



